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February 19, 2003

Warning: Contains Adult Language

You have got to be fucking kidding me!!! Ok, I feel better now. Soda, thanks for the little update on all things mormon. I would like it to be known that a certain bishop of a certain mormon temple in central illinois doesn't really care too much about people, nor the opinion of others of the mormon church.

To make a long story short, I found out that my ex-wife was having an affair with a mormon while we were married, lets call him bill. I went to where "bill" lived, and he and I had a little talk, and I questioned how he could, as a "Good" mormon, have an affair with a married woman. He told me that it was none of my business. I felt blood rise in my neck, and just before I cocked back to lay him out, my better senses caught me. I did the next best thing, and called the bishop of his temple, whose name was given to my by a good friend of mine. This bishop warmly received my call, and promised that he would have a talk with this miscreant. I assumed that all would be taken care of, and that "bill" would think better of his actions, and hope not to disgrace his entire family by carrying on in such a manner.

10 months later, I am now finding out that they are not only still together, but that they are attending temple together, and going to church sponsored activities together at the mighty mormon temple.

Fuck you Joseph Smith, and fuck the mormon church. I wish that you would all move to Salt Lake City, and leave the rest of the world out of your sick and twisted mess.

Posted by Broch at February 19, 2003 12:33 PM

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Did you really expect any help from a cult like the Mormons? Hell until a few years ago they encouraged poligamy and if they encouraged that then what would be the problem of trying to get another wife even if she is married to someone else?????????? Got to love how the Mormon's change their doctrine with the times and pressure from society.

Posted by: Mormonboy1 at February 19, 2003 05:41 PM

Don't get me wrong, I don't want the cheating b**** back, she is damaged goods. She will forever be damaged goods, and whoever is with her is damaged as well.

Posted by: Broch at February 19, 2003 05:52 PM

you should have clocked him. you'd have felt better. there are dickheads in every religion that just give shit a pass rather than stand up for what they know is right. hell, look at the mess us catholics had...it was systemic almost all the way up the chain of command, just ignore the problem, pass it on, and it'll go away. well, thank god it finally blew up and we're forced to clean house now.

Posted by: nose at February 19, 2003 06:04 PM

Actually Broch.. your exwife would probably not be allowed to enter the temple until she is escorted there by her new husband for a sealing ceremony (wedding). By church policy she would need to be a member of the LDS Church in good standing for more than one year, have attended temple classes, undergone a rigorous interview by her Local Bishop and then Stake President, to receive a temple recommend issued by the stake in the first place. At the moment, she is not permitted to go into the temple (any temple) until she meets these requirements. The condition most common for unmarried women is in the case of an aged widow or unmarried woman who does not expect be married for the purpose of getting her own endowments. The only other exception I know to this rule might be that of a young single woman preparing for a mission. I can assure you that adulterous Mormons do not have valid Temple recommends... so whoever told you about the Temple thing is way off...I had an adulterous Mormon wife and know quite a lot about the subject by direct exposure...she slept with a Presybterian Deacon. I also reported him to his minister and they did nothing either, except say that it was none of my nor their business. Take heart, your ex is not going anywhere for the time being. She might be attending services at a local Ward or Branch, but going to the temple, any of them..she's not. By the way, you need to report the Bishop's behavior directly to his Stake President in the area in which the Bishop serves. Salt Lake will give you that information... They will give him the scorching of his life I assure you! Sorry about the hard time..but thought you'd like to know how it works from one who has been to the Temple...and had a similiar adulterous experience. This shit sucks!!! Hang tight!

Posted by: scot-on-the-rocks at February 19, 2003 06:30 PM

Very true Scot, it is the ward that she is attending. I couldn't think of the term, thank you! I also work with a Mormon, who is one of the most God fearing and wonderful people that I know. He is the only reason that I still have respect for that church. To me, "bill" and the deacon were representing the church as a whole, and were displaying that reprehensible behavior was tolerated and swept under the rug.

Posted by: Broch at February 19, 2003 06:51 PM

My grandmother is a Mormon, and when I was a child, she took me with her on Sundays; I even attended classes for a while, but I couldn't get into it. I just didn't get it, and I just didn't like it. Thank goodness we have a choice about these things.

Posted by: April at February 19, 2003 08:10 PM

April, That is exactly right! We do have a choice about it! The reason that I have gone on such a rant about this, is that the LDS church has put such a valiant effort into advertising on TV that they have it so altogether. They are humans just like everyone else, and commit the same sins, and go down the same paths that everyone else does. Self righteousness is on my bad list.

Posted by: Broch at February 19, 2003 08:15 PM

I agree with you Broch. I know/have known people from Mormon�s to Catholics to Christian and so on, and in each case, I have meet some of the nicest God fearing people to some of the slimiest people on Earth. I just wish people would come close to following what they say/believe, if so, it would be a lot nicer place to live. But in either case, I am sorry for the pain that your ex and this weasel boy caused you and that I hope you find lots of love and happiness in your life.

Posted by: Tony at February 20, 2003 02:40 AM

Thanks for the comments and well wishes Tony... In the past year, "Love" has knocked at the doorstep in many different forms and ways, and I have really begun to question what it really is, and how it is supposed to feel. I think that when it is supposed to happen, it will just appear as "Right." Until that time, life is good.

Posted by: Broch at February 20, 2003 01:22 PM

I like cheese. You really just can't go wrong with a good Gouda or Gorganzola. I hope that your ex-wife it's a lot of cheese and that it binds her up for a month until she has crap coming out of her mouth. Cheers. /wave

Posted by: Ralph Kramden at February 20, 2003 03:09 PM

Hi, I think it is good of you to say that you have a least a little respect for the Mormon church but I don't see how you can when you say, "f*** you to the church", that is not showing any respect at all. What your wife did is deffinatly wrong, PEOPLE ARE NOT PURFECT and it sucks, but it is not because of the doctrine of the church it is their freedom of choice. I do not attend church but still respect many of the treachings and people with in it. Realize the differance between the docrine and the sociological aspects of the religion before coming to a decision about all people who follow that gospel. Bye, take care and I hope that action is taken towards that Bishop to punish him of his wrong doing.

Posted by: Heather at April 18, 2003 03:25 PM

well let me tell you a story about mormons.........to make a long story short,they are fucking retarted and need to fucking loosen up,they are the most uptight cult out there.

Posted by: Bill at June 18, 2003 02:07 AM

Not afraid to use my name here. My ex-wife, Anna W. Burris committed serial adultery and used the Mormon faith as her excuse to do it. A week after our divorce was final, she married the idiot she committed adultery with. This guy was her fourth and the second one that I could prove. BTW: He is a 42 year old retired Navy Petty Officer 1st Class...20 years in the Navy and couldn't even make Chief. His retirement pay goes to his first wife with three children. He was legally married to a second wife while he was fucking mine, and still found time to have a girlfriend whom my ex-wife fought with. While my ex was pregnant with our only child, a boy named Nathaniel, he was in the birthing room when I showed up. He left and I watched the birth of my son in agony not knowing if he was mine. Luckily, by a secret DNA test, he is mine and looks like me :) I see him and continue to fight for even more custody. She is furious that I have the court order for this. She has attempted to change my son's name many times and is trying to move out of the state with her idiot second husband and try and take my son away from me. The fight is brewing. She finally left our home on March 10, 2002 and the divorce was final April 18th, 2003. She married him on April 28th, 2003 and is now pregnant. BTW: The new husband, Terry L. Ardinger, has been served with a possible child support order pending a DNA test just last month. Seems that after Anna left our marriage in March of 2002 and took up officially with him, he was busy banging his old girlfriend Jaime. Unbeknownst to Anna (until now no doubt!), Jaime gave birth to a baby girl in December of 2002. This ex-girlfriend has named Terry Ardinger (my ex's second husband as the father of her baby!). She was applying for welfare here in San Diego county and was required to name the father. It would appear that if the DNA test is positive, he will be responsible to pay anywhere from $200 to over $400 per month child support to Jaime. Let me see here....Navy retirement pay going to first wife with 3 kids, youngest is somewhere around age 10, and his regular job pay from CompUSA in La Mesa @ $13/hour being hit for anywhere between $200 to over $400 per month for Jaime's baby...yeah...I would say what goes around comes around. He was always telling me how he is going to take away my son from me. Well....we'll see about that. I am an inactive LDS Elder and he is now or is about to be baptized LDS...one of my wife's gifts is finding potential husbands and converting them to LDS standards. My Bishop did nothing with the two years worth of emails I discovered between them...and her current ward in Poway defends them. They say the people are imperfect, but the church is perfect. The problem is...the LDS folks will never admit that it is men and women who run the church here on this Earth....and they run it with lies and half-truths, especially in matters of adultery by covering it up or minimizing the devastation to families. Logically speaking, the church is imperfect because of all of the crap they pull. God is perfect and he blesses all faiths. The LDS folks are in for a shock when they find out that other faiths occupy the top positions in heaven as well. Sorry for the length of this entry...found it interesting that others have gone through what I have. I can say though I am stronger for all of it and I have my beautiful toddler to sustain me. I now know that I am way better then the ex-wife and her new (probably temporary) husband combined. I can visualize her reaction when (if she hasn't found out already) about the other girl's baby...and can imagine the full fury when the DNA (most likely) will test positive. Good luck to you and know that you will get past this. I am so lucky to be free of this woman. As for the child support, it is only money. The real fight is for Nathaniel's love for me. And to raise him with the truth about human beings, when he turns past 18 years of age if he is ever forced into a position where he needs to know this stuff. Otherwise, I believe he will discover on his own that the LDS faith is a lie and that his mother is unbalanced mentally. I believe he will discover that my love for him is strong and resolute, and forever. In that alone, he will know that I fought and continue to fight for him and still will do all I can to keep him happy and fulfilled. He knows intrinsically (even as a toddler), that I am his one and only father and that no one can ever replace me because I choose to be with him. To all who read this and are experiencing or have experienced similar things...continue to fight the good fight and know that something good for you and your child will happen. Never, ever, never give up. May the Lord give you strength and honor.

Posted by: Charlie at July 1, 2003 11:20 PM

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